Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Posting less, dreaming more.

Recently, I have felt a lot of stress about my blog and I assume it's because I am feeling stress everywhere in my life. These next six weeks are going to be very hard for me phsycially and emotionally; I've thought over and over again about making my blog private or taking time off. I find that I am stressing too much about my posts and what I'm putting on it and if anyone is commenting. I can't say enough about how much I appreciate your support and will continue to post when I can. I feel so awful that I haven't been able to keep up with your posts and perhaps, if I post less - I can!
So, for the sake of our family, and the next two months of infertility treatments - I will be posting less and dreaming more of a much larger family by spring. Instead of going private, just know that you can email me, write me -that I am here, and will post when I can.

16 comments:

SuzanSayz said...

Michelle, you do what you need to do to get through your trying times. I know how easy it is to spend too much mental energy on your blog. That's why I usually only post once or twice a week. I think sometimes I enjoy reading others words, thoughts and ideas more than I do writing my own. I love writing for my blog don't get me wrong, but sometimes coming up with a subject to write about is hard.
I'll be thinking of you and sending good thoughts your way.

Amanda said...

Michelle,

I am so feeling the same way...except for the infertility treatments. I haven't been able to sleep at night because I've been worried about posts to come and other things. I think if I post less it will be a help to me as well.

Good luck with your procedures and things! I will hope and pray for the best for your family!

Heffalump said...

The wonderful thing is that there are no set rules to blogging. You can blog once a week, once a month, or whenever you feel like it!
I could never blog on a daily basis, it's just not doable for me.
I certainly don't expect anyone else to blog daily either. Most of my favorite blogs are on feeds, so I know when they are updated and don't have to keep checking people's blogs for updates.
Enjoy your family!

Kim Sue said...

it should definitely not add stress to your life - take care of yourself!

Jenny said...

I love the aprons in the header. They are so cute.

I am going to make changes in how often I post also. Like you I have been thinking about my blog more than I need to be.

So I understand, family first!

Natalie said...

Smart girl! We're probably all in the same blogging boat to some degree or another and can learn from a girl who's working on finding a balance. I'm proud of you!
xo

dani said...

i totally understand, michelle, and i'm not even going through the fertility thing! good luck:D
love,
dani

Marie said...

You shouldn't be feeling an obligation to blog. Blogging is fun, it is to give yourself something just for you. Don't worry about all us blogging friends; we know what you are going through and we don't begrudge you focusing on that. We support it! I am hoping and dreaming of your larger family with you. Best luck!

Carolee said...

We all can understand your absence. I hope things turn out the way you hope and I will be thinking of you.

Claudissima said...

Oh my...take a deep breath and focus on you and your family. We will keep you in our prayers.

Bren's Life said...

I'll miss you. Good luck with the infertility treatments. Ugh.. I am so sorry you are going through all this. Keep us posted.

crystal said...

Keep your focus where you feel it needs to be! And use your blog as an outlet for YOU, something fun & relaxing & creative for YOU...don't feel like you have to report to "us." We just love to read you & keep up with you...

I love to read your blog to be friends! So no pressure! We're still friends, even if you're not posting! The love is still there. I will say many prayers for you and send many long-distance hugs.

Good luck in the rollercoaster months ahead.
xoxo

Wendi said...

Good luck with everything dear friend. I hope the next two months turn out well. What wonderful dreams...

jenny said...

Thinking of you.... and hope all goes well :)

MaryRC said...

wish you the best..

MaryRC said...

wish you the best..