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Remember the land of before children? When it was called beauty sleep? Not, I have to get at least an hour of sleep before I fall over - sleep. Being a mom, means not only less sleep, but countless hours of worry and wonder about each child, their needs, and life.
Despite the ever increasing age of my twin daughters - I know that I am still recovering from sleep deprivation. The bags under my eyes, if we ever get the chance to meet, will prove it! The very first night we were allowed to take the girls from the orphanage, I was at a crash course in motherhood. Sure, I'd babysat before - but never twins suffering from attachment. It was a very sleepless night, and one of many to follow.
By the 2nd week, I was knee deep in two babies that didn't know how to comfort themselves. We were bonding, but it was clear that one of my daughters was never going to sleep gently in my arms. Perhaps with a little wisdom, I would have handled this situation better - but as it went until she was four - she fought me for at least an hour every night - sometimes two or three hours. This is with trying everything under the sun to help her go to sleep without such a frantic battle. Between four and five, it was twice a week, and now with age and reasoning skills, she understands bedtime. I still cringe every night, wondering if she is going to revert back to her tantrum filled nights. I am grateful that with age, came her ability to understand why she had to sleep; that it wasn't an option to sleep, it is necessary.
I guess if I took this same understanding, sleep is necessary not an option; I would get the sleep I need every night. I personally find that I still cannot relax until my children are asleep and if there are issues that arise during the day regarding their happiness - count any peaceful night's slumber out! The fact is, I am more than happy to put up with a lifetime of sleeplessness! CNN has a great list of mistakes mom's make when it comes to sleep. I like their advice about exercise and managing daily chores. What is your take on the word sleepless?
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